I have never come back from any holiday feeling relaxed, refreshed & reinvigorated to get back into work.
I come back with the taste of freedom, still fresh in my mouth, a renewed hatred for work, and a strong suspicion that this is not what I should be spending my life doing.
Women have an extra hurdle in getting their needs met because of the collective conditioning is that: "good" women are selfless, have very little needs, and their role is simply to meet the needs of other people.