Normalize seeing someones lack of effort as their lack of interest in you. If they wanted to talk to you, they would. If they wanted to be with you, they would. If they wanted to make it work they would. You deserve someone who puts in effort & thinks youre too important to lose.
I really pray everyone finds the right circle of friends & the right partner. Lifeβs already hard, friendships & relationship should be the least of our worries.