your partner coming to you about something you’ve done wrong isn’t a personal attack. it’s a healthy sign they value the relationship and want to make it work – it’s a heads up. you communicate, you fix it, you stay. that’s emotional maturity. that’s commitment. that’s love.
My bestie just bought me tickets to see @iamkevingates next month for my birthday !!!!! I’m excited this will be my 2nd time seeing him in concert ! IYKYK I love me some Kevin 💯💯💯
Slavery is downplayed that people will take photos, build gyms, and have wedding at these death camps where they mutilated, raped, beaten, starved, and more our ancestors.
hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. you gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going.
yeah breakups hurt, but have you ever been a super talkative, enthusiastic person but slowly over the years and after trauma you watch yourself become more quieter and quieter to the point where that enthusiastic bubbly person just isn't who you are anymore?
the funniest part abt all of this nonsense is that when black people see other black ppl in high positions, we TRUST that they are super qualified bc ain’t no way they just giving away those jobs to black ppl like they do whites 😩😩😩