Getting my feelings hurt and having to find a way to get over them and rationalize and grow the fuck up was how I changed my life for the better. That’s what everybody else has to do too. There’s only one way out. Why do I need to baby you? 🥴
It’s extremely counterproductive to be trying to heal yourself and grow when the person you are dealing with is unraveling all of the progress you’ve made. It takes discipline to stay where you are instead of turning back to get the person who is so far behind. LET THEM CATCH UP!
this small town, smaller mind shit is OLD. some of y’all will really throw money, opportunity, and decency away just to end up exactly like your miserable parents& keep ur pride. I hate it here!