i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..
and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
Stefon Diggs was cracking the entire staff. Now I understand why his Vikings teammates picked him as the teammate who could never date their sister 😅😅😅
i used to think communication was a key until i realized comprehension is. you can communicate all you want with someone but if they don’t understand you or refuse to understand, communication is useless.
“My pretty girl”
“Good girl”
“You’re mine”
“Come here”
“My pretty princess”
“Sweetheart”
“That’s right baby”
“You belong to me”
“Yeah?”
“Listen to me”
“You sound so pretty”
“You’re doing so good for me”
“That’s my girl”
“Just like that”
i texted her, "how was your day today?", and she sent me a 7 minute vn, telling me everything.. and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
The most destructive piece of internet lore ever created is the phrase: "If they wanted to, they would."
It sounds empowering, but it is actually deeply narcissistic. It assumes that a person’s actions are dictated 100% by their desire for you, while completely ignoring their capacity.
A partner can desperately want to give you the world, but if they are fighting a silent financial war, battling burnout, or dealing with a health crisis, their capacity is at zero. Measuring a stressed partner's love strictly by their ability to "perform" is a lethal mistake. "If they wanted to, they would" is the fastest way to lose a fiercely loyal partner over a temporary lack of bandwidth.