As long as your heart is pure and your intentions are genuine, never stress over what you can’t control. What’s meant for you will find you, and what leaves was never yours to keep.
You're exactly where Allah swt wants you to be, this phase you're going through in your life is also part of Allah's plans, so keep trusting Him and don't lose hope
Delays are part of life. Not everything will go according to your plan. When Allah delays, there is khair in it. You might not be able to see it right now but Allah will show you why He made you wait. So be patient. You will soon see beautiful blessings.
Don’t just pray, send salawat, do lots of istigfar, fast if you can, pray tahajjud, have proper conversations with Allah and watch how quickly your life changes.
If a relationship is going to actually work… you have to remember something. You’re two completely different people. Two different upbringings. Two different pasts. Two different ways of thinking, feeling, and handling things. And then somehow… you’re trying to build one life together. Of course it’s not always going to be easy. You’re not going to agree on everything. You’re not always going to see things the same way. You’re not always going to react the same. And that doesn’t mean something is wrong. That’s just reality. The problem isn’t the differences… it’s how you handle them. Because when things don’t line up, that’s when it really shows what kind of connection you have. Do you listen… or do you just react? Do you actually try to understand each other… or are you just trying to prove a point? Do you communicate… or let pride take over? That’s what makes or breaks it. Because a healthy relationship isn’t about agreeing all the time. It’s about respecting each other enough to work through the moments you don’t. To protect the connection instead of attacking it. To choose each other… even when it’s uncomfortable. That’s what real love looks like. Not perfect… just two people willing to figure it out together.
Maturity is realizing that a relationship can work and actually be fixed in almost any situation. It just takes the both of you to actually want it to work and correct what you're doing that is hurting your partner.