A coworker died yesterday morning😭.
HR knew by 9 :00 AM, but they kept us working all day. They finally told us around 4 :30 PM, then had the nerve to say, "You can head home early if you need to"—knowing we all finish at 5: 00 PM anyway.
This morning, it’s back to "business as usual." Some of my friends are literally sobbing at their desks, but they’re expected to work and be productive. No time to grieve.
It’s a cold reality. Within a week, the company will have his job posted online. Within a month, someone else will be sitting in his chair.
But his family ,his children will still talk about him every day,they will ask where is daddy , His wife will mourn him for ages ,he was the love of her life .
At work, we are just a "resource" that can be replaced in a week. At home, we are the world. Stop giving your best energy to a desk that will forget you, and giving the "leftovers" to the people who never will.
@Iamivy05 they ALLLLL do it, i’ve even been like “babe come upstairs” and he’s like “no i’ll be up soon” …. comes up at 3 am “why’d you leave me”???? 😭😭
Men aren’t unattractive because of how they look, it’s the attitude. The entitlement, the lack of effort, the poor communication, the emotional unavailability, the immaturity. Wanting everything while giving nothing is the biggest turn-off.
marry a man who's a provider. that doesn't necessarily mean that he has alot of money. It means he knows his responsibilities. he'll make mountains move just so your needs are met. a responsible man is better than a rich man who doesn't value you.
I hope I marry a man who pays attention to small details. I want to be asked how my day went, if I ate. i want forehead kisses. i want the back of my hand kissed at red lights. i want to be asked how i'm mentally feeling. i want my hair played in at the most unexpected moments>>