Khadijah

[only 1 uzama @KaiUzama]

That’s his business, he’ll call the coworker & both of us will drive to her house & collect the hamper back.

[Mortuary Fried Rice, Esq. @dawnwiththebum]

“To continue your legacy”. I no even know my great grand father💀

[Àshàké(not Ololade)❤️ @Molayoo_]

“You need to have a baby now, so you won’t be lonely when you get old”

But the last time you saw your own mum was in 2019, she no lonely?

[tobi @oluwatobiexe]

she is the one doing all the image laundering for baba ijesa. if they ever separate, she will remind him he is a convicted abuser.

[Purple💜 @_shalommmm]

propaganda i’m not falling for:

greek yogurt as salad dressing.

[GoldThatGlitters✨💕 @her_sweetness__]

@_wholezed End violence against women💔

[Elaya🏳️‍🌈 @withlovelayaa]

@_wholezed Stop killing women!! 💔

[Eniola Amusan @eniola_amusan]

My name is Eniola. In 2021, shortly after graduating, I was posted to Akwa Ibom State for my NYSC program. Just two weeks into the orientation camp, I fell seriously ill and was advised to return home.

[Jade Osiberu @jadeosiberu]

I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.

Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.

If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.

[Urenna @BridgetUrenna]

One thing I’ll never forgive modern weddings for is stopping the tradition of sharing cake.

Seeing the cake but not getting a slice feels like seeing the Promised Land from a distance but never getting to step into it.

[Dodo @dodobabs_]

Is the change you’ll earn from the engagement really worth this lack of humanity? I hate how hungry and poor you people are.

[Hauwa 🌟🌬 @Hauwa_L]

When I realized I want to be able to walk out of any situation whenever I want to.

[Zab’s Cuisine @ZabsCuisine]

Little day in my life as a food vendor that sells and cook food on the street…❤️

[Oluwatimileyin✨🦋 @Timmysofine]

"Any idiot can go to school and get a PhD" says the idiot without a PhD

[Mr. Anu @Anu_official]

I need Yoruba women to dead the obsession with having an ‘ade ori’. Your head is better off without some kinds of ‘ade’.

[Intern gbogbo HR @tundeskie]

OYO STATE KIDNAP❗️❗️❗️

Victims are still in custody 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾

Ah

[Only 1 Yinny @msoyindaa]

I’m so disgusted.

[Chelsea Godmother 💰 🇺🇸 🇳🇬 @larmmy]

Women dey marry oooo

[🍒 @nimibillions]

a moving woman (me) will jam her fully funded msc scholarship 🫶🏾

[Damdam🫶🏼 @dam_____dam]

A moving babe will jam her MSc and PhD degrees someday ✨