You’re 18 → excited about everything
You’re 19 → distracted by everything
You’re 20 → confused about direction
You’re 21 → comparing with everyone
You’re 22 → feeling behind
You’re 23 → trying to fix things
You’re 24 → learning slowly
You’re 25 → taking it seriously
You’re 26 → cutting distractions
You’re 27 → valuing time
You’re 28 → focusing deeply
Basically, no one had it figured out early.
Relax.
Then get serious.
maturing is realizing that, sometimes, as an adult, you have to decide “this is the last time these people are going to make me feel this way,” and stand by it. whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship.
my therapist told me this and it hit me: “healing is so hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child who is scared and just wants safety.... your inner teenager who is angry and just wants justice.... and your current self-who is tired and just wants peace."
Relationship works only when a guy loves you more than you love him. Because for a guy, what he feels matter .And for a girl, how he makes her feel matters. He'll not leave as long as he loves you and she'll not leave long as she's being loved.
Javiera Montero was detained for 8 hours before NYPD was forced to admit she committed no crimes and was just vacationing in New York.
Please share her story.