What's the need to test your incoming daughter-in-law with chores? 😭
Why is it that the very first time she's visiting your house, that's when you suddenly remember there's clothes to wash or the house needs sweeping? Why are you bringing out a broom as if you're waiting for me to collect it from you? 😭
I'm coming to marry your son, not apply for the position of house help.
When your son came to meet my parents, he was treated like a king. Nobody brought out dirty clothes for him to wash or handed him a broom.
Why must I go through a "wife material" test? Who started this tradition? Abeg, who cursed us like this? 😭😂
The day ends at 4pm, it’s impossible to get out of bed in the morning because it’s so dark, you can’t sit outside, it’s depressing, cold and miserable. Winter is the pits. Don’t let a week of slightly uncomfortable temperatures deceive you.
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A govt that kills its people does not deserve to rule us:
https://t.co/kITULpJHLz
Not having stable electricity means that your water supply would be epileptic and so you wouldn’t be able to take showers with your partner because you’re managing water. This means that you’d have nobody to help you wash your back and your back will be dirty. This might cause friction in the bedroom when your partner is kissing your back and they taste dirt.
Get your PVC, we have to vote this party out so your relationship can be saved.
The pregnant woman's phone has been replaced, her sister will be taking her to retrieve her line today.
She can barely walk on her own due to the fall.
“But women sexualise themselves”… no, men sexualise our existence.
There’s a fetish for the schoolgirl, the teacher, the secretary, the nurse, the nun, the “innocent” girl, the “experienced” woman, the boss, the assistant, the submissive, the dominant, the “barely legal,” the mother, the babysitter, the neighbour, the coworker every version of us gets turned into something sexual.
Covered? There’s a fetish. Modest? There’s a fetish. Uncovered? There’s a fetish. Even discomfort, even vulnerability is sexualised.
The same woman will be sexualised and then shamed for it in the next breath. That contradiction isn’t ours to carry.
Saying women sexualise themselves is just a way to dodge accountability because no matter what we do, you were already going to sexualise us anyway.