When you’re being told to do something over and over as a duty just because of your gender, and it’s also used as an insult “get back in the kitchen”, of course you’ll hate doing it. You guys act so slow intentionally.
There this Saloon lady that comes up my fyp on tiktok, her content is about people that comes to her with hair like this.
She does the job so well as she makes the client feel relax and comfortable.
She explains how most of her clients are having mental breakdowns and how difficult it was for them to come on her chair.
She says how she works with psychologist and grief counsellors who recommend her to their clients. Some of them come with braids as old as 6 years. Or locks that have not being washed for years. You need to see how they cry with their family/friends who brought them in, When she is done.
People are going through a lot and hair is the least of their problems.
Until I hear her story or not I'm not judging her.