I hate how ADHD has been sensationalized as the fun mental illness but having it literally feels like walking around with some very specific kind of dementia that is actively ruining your life at every step and the culprit is always you.
yaay my doctor says i don't have covid! my cough is due to weed, my muscle fatigue is because I sleep 4 hours a night, and the brain fog is simply becase I'm am stupid
The men at my office think I'm a buzzkill because I don't laugh at their sexist/body shaming jokes. The number has reduced, but they say to each other "Oh don't say that, she won't like it". My strictness has led to men watching what they say around me and the other women in the office.
Be strict. You're asking them to be decent humans and that is BARE MINIMUM.