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One thing Iβm realizing about relationships is that understanding each other matters more than people think. A lot of couples genuinely love each other but still struggle because they donβt understand how the other person communicates, reacts to stress, handles conflict, expresses love, or processes emotions.
Not everyone needs the same things. Some people need reassurance, some need space, some need words, some need actions. If you keep loving people only in the way that makes sense to YOU without trying to understand them, misunderstandings become inevitable.
Sometimes your partner is not βtoo sensitive,β βtoo distant,β or βtoo difficultβ you both might just be speaking different emotional languages and failing to understand where the other person is coming from. Relationships become healthier when both people stop trying to win and start trying to understand.
Please donβt just watch #TheCrash on Netflix and make a judgement . Watch Killer Cases season 4 episode 12 and watch Mean Girl Season 2 episode 7 to get more detail. That girl is not innocent by any means.