Until you evolve, unlearn, relearn, and realize that women of this generation will not endure the bad treatments many of your mothers endured in the hands of your fathers, y’all will keep having failed marriages.
I have established a very small school at my residence. Currently I’m the only one enrolled but admission is still in progress. Friday is when we vacate. We’ll love to have you grace our day with your culinary skills.
I think that’s partly due to it being a cultural norm. In the white community, teens take their partners home in high school and families are guiding those relationships. Black teens are taught dating is a crime and are then expected to pull a spouse and kids out a hat
@MarthaAhumuza My mom does this. She’ll vent to me about everything she gave up, then turn around and tell my brother his future wife should take care of the home.
That's why a lot of men don’t see their mothers as full humans with dreams and regrets.
@MarthaAhumuza Mothers protect their sons from reality while prepping their daughters for it, which inadvertently breeds a complete lack of empathy in men later on. This tweet is so profound.
sons are raised to experience only the comfort those choices created. They don’t see the woman who gave things up but they see the home that was maintained and the meals that appeared. A lot of men are not taught to see their mothers as women with dreams or ambitions.
son in the same breath, insisted that his future wife had to be a stay at home wife and she definitely had to be educated, of course. The irony is that she once told me her son didn’t even know how to properly take care of himself, and she hoped he would find a “good wife”
who would look after him. And that’s the cycle right there. Even when women recognise the unfairness of these expectations, they are often still socialised to reproduce them. Women privately tell their daughters about the exhaustion and compromises behind certain choices while
This is exactly why you’ll find grown men glorifying their mothers’ sacrifices while having very little understanding of what those sacrifices actually cost them. I remember my aunt once telling me that leaving her job was one of the worst decisions she ever made yet her
Husband is relaxing in the house, wife
is washing a bale of clothes outside under the sun. After this, she'll go and cook. They do this every Saturday and they both go to work from Monday to Friday. You see this kind of marriage? I reject it for all my female friends.
Aba realized that most people aren’t on her side, so now she’s doing this. Such a wicked lady. 😒🤣🤣 Thanks, Kwaakwa, for replying her. 😫 This isn’t even April Fool!!! Aba paaa 😡