Many mental health problems are due to a person’s sin. For which you don’t need a pill—you need to repent and turn to Christ.
“When I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night Your hand was heavy upon me…” (Psalm 32:3-4)
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.
Men who can't communicate think everything is an argument, and men who lack accountability think everything is an attack. And that's exactly why she shuts down, becaus explaining herself feels like defending herself... and no matter what she says, you always make her out to be the problem!!