im really scared to get pregnant, nobody is still together after their baby was born. better yet it seem like after people find out they expecting relationship be over with. i want nothing but happiness and to be spoiled while I’m carrying
I made 2 mistakes in my early 20s that I deeply regret. First: making people who’ve hurt me believe that we’re cool because honestly, we are not. I forgave you to free myself, but the North remembers. Second: wasting time being sad about how people have treated me. Never again.
Sometimes you show up for ppl, depressed,sad and all. Put on a fake smile and they don’t even know wtf going on. They don’t know how much energy it required and they don’t even appreciate your presence. That’s why ppl stop showing up.
just seen a tiktok about how many Black women’s anxiety shows up as irritation, giving the illusion that those Black women are aggressive or unfriendly, when in reality they’re just overwhelmed
Can y’all please normalize letting people be until they feel like being bothered again ! Yes I’m on social media , yes I see your calls & texts ! I don’t feel like talking/texting .. I will respond when my human interaction radar is reset . Until then .. LET ME BE!
Having REAL friends is important. And I’m not talking about friends that call you pretty and like your pictures, I’m talking about the friends that’s gone be there for the uncomfortable, rough situations.
Top golf. Axe throwing. Gun range. Mud riding. Jet skiing. Museum. Aquarium. Zip lining. Wine tastings. Paint and Sip Nites. Fishing. Laser tag. Candle making. Pottery and cooking classes. Go kart racing. Escape room. NBA and NFL games. These are the things I like as a date🥹.