The older generation of women who have never been treated well by a man see me and my slaves and immediately think, “They must be traumatized. They just want to worship her because of trauma. She must be traumatized too. BDSM is trauma.”
Apparently, if your sexuality or relationship dynamic is different, something must be wrong with you. As if there’s only one “correct” way to love, desire, or relate to another human being.
How silly is that?
And the funniest part? Many of these people call themselves spiritual teachers or gurus. They’ve never studied BDSM, never spoken to experienced practitioners, never been part of the community yet they feel entitled to explain it to everyone else.
If you know nothing about a subject, maybe stop speaking with certainty. Otherwise, you don’t look enlightened you just look silly.