MoonMoon

Two parallel lines can never intersect—like you and me

[Aiman Psikologi 🧠🇲🇾 @AimanPsikologi]

I grew up with this nomad environment actually.

Just sharing my perspective.

Every 3 years, we had to move to different state due to the bank policy, as my father is a bank officer.

Kelantan, Sarawak, Pahang, Selangor, these are some of the multiple city I grew up in.

Some say "Wah bestnya merasa banyak tempat!"

But from my side, it hurts actually.

Baru je nak buat kawan, rapat sikit, kena berpisah. Sampai tempat baru, kemudian ulang kisah sama di tempat baru.

Hasilnya?

I don't have childhood friends, I don't have someone close to me until now.

I grew up as a person who lack the interest to develop close relationship with anyone I met.

I don't have close friends, and I became easily move on to different people, when the time came.

For example, when I started my diplome, I no longer contacted my high school friends. When I entered my Degree, I lost contact with my friends in the diploma. And the cycle keep going until I finished my master.

In the end, it's hard for me to develop close relationship with someone, and I end up preferring to work alone and disconnect with other people around me (except for work purposes, e.g., clients).

This is not a disagreement of the quoted tweet, just sharing my perspective and journey of life on how my childhood shaped my adulthood.

[ًِ @bckupacc99]

Dilan once say,

marahnya orang sabar adalah diam & kecewanya orang sabar adalah pergi