I let go of that, to give me more time to focus on my priorities. Sometimes I cringe at it, that's fine. But it's a small thing that only I will notice.
But the second one, allowing imperfections, has helped me exponentially.
I know it sounds silly, but it was even just little things at work. Accidentally write slantedly on a card? Rewrite it. Need to make a line for some reason? Time to break out the tape and make it perfect.
These last few months I've been focusing on two things.
1. Complimenting anyone/anything verbally if I think it. Even if it sounds dumb.
2. Allow imperfections.
Of course I want to be cool and have everyone like me. But so much constantly changes, and to be hung up on the idea of what others think of you is suffocating.
Things have been... odd the last few years. It's hard to juggle between what I assume people want me to be with who I honestly don't even know who I am?