1. You stop being just a daughter:
You become a second parent instead of simply being a child. You are expected to become the example, the helper, learn raise your siblings, and the one who’s supposed to know and act better. All because you were born first.
Heads-up: the third and final installation of my migrant investigation to be released by @fijnigeria tomorrow is a lengthy read.
It is also the scariest.
For both reasons, I encourage you to grab breakfast before you dive in. Don't say I didn't warn you.☺️
These three work together. Consideration makes you pay attention. Curiosity makes you want to understand. Communication gives you the space to express and navigate what you find.
It’s not being pretentious or trying to prove a point. A healthy conversation is about understanding each other and finding a rhythm that works for both of you. Lack of communication ends the best relationships.