A man who can enjoy doing nothing on his birthday doesn’t need validation from the event. Men don’t want a celebration, they want a day where nobody needs anything from them. That IS the celebration.
For women: marry a man you love, respect, and are willing to submit to. But first, be sure he loves God, fears God, has leadership qualities, is ambitious, teachable, and truly loves you.
For men: marry a soft, self-respecting woman who fears God, can build a home with you, respects you, values family, is loving, and has vision.
These are just the basics… every other standard is for both of you to define together as you grow.
My personality confuses people. I enjoy being alone, a lot, but I'm also outgoing and social. My environment dictates how I behave. Sometimes I'm quiet, sometimes I'm loud, sometimes I'm outspoken, sometimes I have nothing to say. I read the energy and i adjust.
I promised myself that no matter how badly people treat me, I will never be a bad person. I’m proud of that because I will never use people’s actions as an excuse to treat anyone badly.
At the end of the day, nobody knows how hard you hustle for your goals, how lonely you feel at times, how much sleep you lose, or the daily pressures you face. That's why you have to remember to do it for yourself, whatever that thing is.