nikobor

24 yo ♑
submissive, discovering bdsm world🧎
🇮🇹🇫🇷🇬🇧🇩🇪

[Goddess Lux🤍.˚✧₊ @drain2lux]

unpopular opinion: pay your bills before you pay me. i have absolutely no interest in hearing your 'im broke now' sob stories. be a functional adult first, then be my atm. know the difference.

[𝐈𝐕𝐘 𝐀𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐍 🥀 @theivyaspen]

A real domme and sub dynamic is not just about control. It is about recognition.

The submissive is not weak. He is tired. Tired of always being in charge. Tired of holding it together. Tired of never being able to ask for help.

And the domme is not cruel. She is steady. She sees through the noise. She gives him permission to stop pretending.

The power exchange is not always dramatic. Sometimes it is quiet. It shows up in how he softens when she speaks. In how his mind slows down when she takes charge.

It is not about obedience for the sake of it. It is about peace. About being known. About finally letting go in a way that feels safe.

This is the real dynamic. Not fantasy. Not ego. Not performance.

Just two people. One leading. One choosing to let go. And both of them finally being able to breathe.

[Goddess𝓜ayumi @GoddessMayumi]

Tal vez me funarán, pero tengo la necesidad de decir que…

If you’re looking for a D. while you’re not single, you’re NOT a slave.
You’re just a coward hiding behind BDSM to feed your ego,
spitting on its core values:
respect, consent, loyalty. 🙂‍↔️

[Caroline No @MissCarolineNo]

Ritual and Routine in Female-Led Relationships
A message from your Goddess

Ritual and routine are the cornerstones of a disciplined and thriving Female-Led Relationship. When properly established, they do not restrict, they liberate. They eliminate guesswork and offer your submissive a daily path of devotion, purpose, and pleasing Me.

Every morning should begin with acknowledgment. A kneeling ritual. A whispered “Good morning, Goddess,” or a kiss on My feet. You do not rise before Me. You serve before you act. These rituals reinforce your place beneath Me, humble, obedient, grateful.

Routine gives you structure. It reminds you that service is not only when the mood strikes, it is your existence. Chores are not errands; they are devotions. Journaling your obedience, your thoughts, your failures, is not optional. It is your accountability.

As described in At Her Feet, rituals maintain the emotional rhythm of the dynamic. They are not fluff; they are fuel for enduring FLR power exchange. And as Marisa Rudder explains, rituals, especially those tied to discipline, can heighten arousal, deepen surrender, and reinforce the Female’s rightful authority .

If you fail in your routine, there are consequences. If you perform it with devotion, there is approval. That polarity is your reward and your correction.

So if you truly seek to belong to a Superior Woman, whether Me or another, embrace the beauty of ritual and the necessity of routine.

Now go. Polish your submissive journal. Light My candle. Prepare for the next command.

Goddess Caroline

[Lili @Lili777h]

My ideal relationship is him being terrified of what I might do to him, but still feeling safe enough to let me do it

[Princess 💌 @reignlyss]

It's very important to understand and get to know a sub, not every sub craves humiliation or is here to be called a l♡ser, many just need someone to be able to talk to, unleash their desires they've been unable to openly talk about in their lives without feeling judged or unsafe.

No two subs will ever have the same experience with me, I always get to know each sub personally and understand what is best suited for them and that's just one of the benefits of servixg me 💗

[Princess 💌 @reignlyss]

It’s a man’s natural desire to feel useful, helpful and of use to a woman.

Men are wired to want to submit, surrender to and serve those women who naturally take control without it having to be said, just thought actions and aura.

That’s why utilizing the right tool is key to enforce obedience, discipline, eliminating distractions etc. 🔐

[Princess 💌 @reignlyss]

Sometimes all a sub needs is just someone to talk to as a friend not humiliation, degradation, or kink related stuff.

Which I’m all in for (ofc as long as my time is respected) and sometimes it’s fun to get to know a sub on a personal level

[𝐈𝐕𝐘 𝐀𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐍 🥀 @theivyaspen]

Most subs don’t submit because they are weak. They submit because for the first time in their life, they don’t feel the need to pretend to be strong. That’s the difference. It’s not about giving up. It’s about finally letting go of something they were never meant to carry alone.

[𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝕭𝖚𝖗𝖗𝖔𝖜 𝕶𝖎𝖓𝖌 ♚ @TheBurrowKing]

A Dom isn’t measured by how quickly a sub obeys a command.

It's measured by how safe a sub feels, how much they trust you and how you respect boundaries and limits.

Obedience is not the end goal—connection and mutual understanding are.

Obedience naturally follows after trust.

[schiavo gatto🐱🐈 @solesfeetslave]

Il feticismo e il Bdsm di oggi....paga coglione...apri il portafoglio ....invia....pompa il mio conto....e basta....avete rotto il cazzo....esiste solo la findom e son diventate tutte dominanti solo dietro un pagamento...cambiate disco su 🐱

[🪐Temptress Clio 💸 @cashforkronos]

Chronically online “Dommes” who are loudly proclaiming we “shouldn’t be friends with/ date subs” are the same dommes who think all subs are gross losers. When you project that energy, naturally you’ll only get the bottom of the barrel submissives, the ones who top from the bottom, use you as a kink dispenser, and have no interest in you as a person.

Some of us attract subs who are successful, intelligent, interesting people who have a lot more to offer to a dynamic than just sending money! We all have subs we only interact with when they send, but it’s pretty clear your personality is dry as a sponge if not a single one of the people who have shared their submission with you have been interesting or worthy of friendship. That’s on you babe!

[Miss Fernanda 👠🌹 @PadronaFernanda]

È giustissimo che ognuna abbia un ritorno economico assolutamente, ma non esiste nel mondo che si ingannino le persone e si facciano truffe o estorsioni.
Essere dominante non è questo, questo è parassitaggio è l'esatto opposto della classe che dovrebbe avere una domina.

[Alla @sunrisefall]

As a sub, don’t get fooled by the toxicity of online femdom/findom. You are not a loser for wanting to serve a woman. Embracing your role in a relationship, whether submissive or dominant, isn't about winning or losing. It's about fulfilling desires and finding strength in giving and receiving pleasure. There's empowerment in pleasing your partner and pride in being recognized for it.

[nikobor @_nikobor_]

@falcoRTW @marcello_emme @diamante_femdom OF sponsorizza il motomondiale, e diversi altri eventi sportivi, credo siano piuttosto in regola…

[nikobor @_nikobor_]

@diamante_femdom @marcello_emme @falcoRTW Passare soldi da A a B nascondendo da dove vengono, dove vanno e che giro fanno

[nikobor @_nikobor_]

@diamante_femdom @falcoRTW @marcello_emme È un discorso complicato, il settore del sex work andrebbe prima di tutto legalizzato e regolamentato.

[nikobor @_nikobor_]

@diamante_femdom @falcoRTW @marcello_emme Mhh, magari proverò, quella mi piace già di più 😂

[nikobor @_nikobor_]

@marcello_emme @diamante_femdom @falcoRTW Riconosco la mia ignoranza, pensavo fosse come altre che hanno successivamente chiuso.
Ma a sto punto tutta la storia dell’anonimato cade…