Btw, it’s emotional intelligence to keep the terrible things people say about your friend to yourself. You don’t have to tell her everything. Sometimes you can hear something and know it will hurt her, and the kindest thing to do is simply keep it to yourself.
The key to not jumping off a cliff is to remind yourself that your emotions will be different in a week, and to keep busy until then. And to stay away from cliffs.
It’s almost like when you stop begging for flowers (from the crowd, from friendships, from relationships) and stop being who you think people expect you to be, life starts handing you people and opportunities that shower you with them
Men hate rejection they all react the same way… Prince Kaybee enjoyed being called a legend of “modavazo” to boost his ego. That’s why he immediately switched to weaponizing abuse allegations as a clap back and insults when Thuli P cleared the rumors.