I’m usually the person that tries to fix bonds and friendships, but lately I’ve been letting people stand on how they feel. We never have to talk again. That’s perfectly fine by me.
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
Highly recommend letting people know you're capable of madness from time to time. Especially as a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect... let people know you can go from O to Thanos real quick...
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave
bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.
but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.
As a man , why are you FAT?
You don’t menstruate. You don’t have hormonal issues. You don’t have PCOS. You don’t carry children.
So why are you fat? Why are your breasts hanging?