Highly ambitious women thrive in their singleness. Partnership is beautiful, but only when it brings emotional safety, consistency, generosity, and respect. I just want a soft place to land and be feminine after working hard.
A woman working 40+ hrs a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. Andno, she can't bring you peace when she's in survival mode.
I think every woman hits that season where she’s not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You move differently. You don’t explain.. you just shift. That’s maturity mixed with grace.
Discernment is actually real. You can hear stuff that's not being said. You can feel things and don't even have to be in close proximity. You can detect a lie from miles away. Sometimes it feels like a blessing and a curse because that third eye is awake.
maturing is realizing you cannot get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them.. even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be serious matter to them. genuine consideration is the key