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[Ola’ @_olaomo]

now playing - See what the Lord has done ✨

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

The single greatest skill you can develop is the ability to stay in a great mood in the absence of things to be in a great mood about.

[Ola’ @_olaomo]

In dire need of a dance party with @Nenkimwa__ & @i_killed_cain

[Lanre Shonubi @LanreShonubi]

When you become more assertive of your value, people start to pull away. It’s not you! You are not the problem, they have just seen they can’t advantage anymore.

You just start saying no to things more.

[‘Tunde Omotoye @TundeTASH]

Opportunity came dressed as Monday, but you said you don't like her.

[Ola’ @_olaomo]

I had Ikokore for lunch and suddenly all was right in the world

[Edgar Allen Poe @allenakinkunle]

I think it's better to think of yourself as a not-so-good person who tries everyday to do right by people than to think of yourself as a good person who tries not to do wrong. To me, the former is freeing and more compatible with the human condition.

[Matriarch @_Matriach]

One of the best things you can do for yourself in adulthood, is to learn how to leave things alone.

Just leave it alone. Situations, people, whatever it is, leave it alone.

[Ola’ @_olaomo]

I can almost hear the angels shout “Let’s goooooooo!!”

Obedience might be hard, but it’s so rewarding.

[` @lisaawrites]

“And that's the thing about people who mean everything they say. They think everyone else does too.”

— Khaled Hosseini, The Kite Runner

[soosoorandom @sluvity_____]

i know that no one is responsible for my happiness but i am very appreciative of the people that add to it.

[Lisa @lisathebeauty1]

The illusion of “options” is making y’all misbehave and fumble genuine people.

[Lisa @lisathebeauty1]

If God trusted you with a heart that loves so deeply, he has also prepared someone who knows exactly how to cherish it.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

If I’m having a tough conversation with you, it’s because I want you in my life and want you to tighten up so I can keep you in it. I’m not attacking you.

[Layton Elyas @origina1ange1]

I’ve said this before, but being a genuinely kind and authentic person who expresses your vulnerabilities and/or doesn’t follow certain unspoken “social hierarchy” rules will put a major target on your back by those who see those traits as “performative” or even manipulative/deceitful.

People who consistently view others that way are telling on themselves. How we perceive the world (including other people) mirrors the conditions of our own inner world.

A healthy person does not interpret basic consideration as some kind of control tactic. A grounded person does not consistently assume the worst of others.

Doing so will either 1. eventually create a self-fulfilling prophecy, or, 2. result in the cognitive distortion of “confirmation bias,” where the other person cannot “win” no matter what they do because you have already decided their intentions or motivations for them.

[D. @Lush_Beauty1]

He didn’t say maybe, He said SURELY goodness and mercy will follow you all the days of your life. (Psalm 23).

[🤠 @heavensbvnny]

Dating while neurodivergent means you’re not just looking for someone you like. You’re looking for someone who doesn’t make you mask

[angie @hotsoggi]

why is wearing a hat as someone who doesn't usually wear hats so difficult and humiliating. it feels like everyone can tell i don't know what i'm doing