If you have no kids. Do it right. Find a good man. Get MARRIED. Enjoy your marriage for at least a year. Build your foundation. THEN have a baby. Don’t rush into motherhood unprepared. You and your child deserve better.
a girl on tiktok said “detachment is crazy because you’ll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they’re okay. you just stop showing it” and that’s real shit.
Accountability is so important to me. Nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match.