People be knowing they wrong. But instead of being grown about it, apologizing, or taking accountability… they’ll flip the whole situation and act like you did something to them.
dealing with a ngga who never think he wrong is draining as fck. no accountability, no reflection, just excuses and finger pointing. everything somebody else fault, everything a misunderstanding, everything get flipped back on you. after a while you realize you not even arguing to fix nothing… you arguing with somebody who already decided they can’t be wrong. and that sht get exhausting real quick.
disappearing on your partner after conflict when they need clarity or closeness is not giving yourself space. it is emotional abuse. the anxiety and abandonment wounds it creates are very real