I just dont care to be super understanding to no man. Its not my ministry. Men truly feel like their needs and wants should overshadow yours. & what they go through should be an excuse for how they act to you.
A man will choose himself in every situation and not feel bad about it. Meanwhile women be losing sleep, overthinking, trying to understand. Be selfish too. Protect your peace the same way he protect his. Cause they not losing themselves over you, so don’t lose yourself over them