The moment Tunde Perry joined K1 De Ultimate on stage and K1 asked his PA, KC De Ultimate, to bet on a dice game with him.
Tunde Perry ended up chopping both K1 and KCβs money. ππ
The women may have my neck for this π but I find myself sharing this view.
Not that I expect women to pay school fees or take over responsibilities that Islam clearly places on men, but because I believe helping and making life better for one another is one of the sole purpose of marriage, how do you claim to love someone and you're not moved to lighten their burden? especially when it is obvious that he is trying his best but it's unfortunately enough for the realities confronting the family. I'm not talking about deadbeats please, but real responsible men.
The statement "a woman's money is her money" is true in terms of rights. But rights and responsibilities are not always the same thing.
Having no obligation to assist does not automatically mean one should watch a spouse drown while holding tightly to the lifeboat, more so when our children's life is involved.
Many women like me are rightly quick to reject polygyny, I have said several times that I do not desire it for myself and I'm sure it's the same for many of us. But have we ever paused to ask what value we consistently bring to a man's life that makes him willingly devote himself to one woman when he has the means, the permission and the opportunity to choose otherwise?
Just as we have rights over our husbands and expect those rights to be fulfilled, they too have rights over us.
One of those rights, in my opinion, is finding peace, comfort and refuge in us when life becomes overwhelming.
Marriage was never designed to be a battlefield of technicalities.
It was designed to be a place where two people protect each other from the harshness of the world.
If the man eventually breaks under the weight of responsibilities he carried alone, will the family not still bear the consequences of a burden that could have been lightened together?
Sometimes, the question is not "Must I help?"
The deeper question is, "If I can help the person I love, why wouldn't I?"
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