you're always going to be a villain in someone's story no matter how much people pleasing you did, how many times you sacrificed for them, never said no, etc. accept it and make peace w that. you'll never be able to please everyone & make everyone love you. let that shit go.
Narcissists need to pretend you’re a bad person to validate the hatred they feel for envying you, so they don’t look guilty for the way they treated you.
I think ppl get offended when you aren't ashamed of things that they were taught to be ashamed of. They resent you for not caring what everybody thinks
it may sound crazy but some people self regulate using chaos & conflict. they are so used to chaos that it has become a big part of who they are & how they relate to others. people like this need to be ignored & grey rocked.
You know those events you go to and everything is disorganized? And you are just wondering who organized such a useless event? Those events are planned by people who use their inside voice and want to be seen as nice.
In fact she is even nice, the screaming you will see me do?
same “dudes” that be faking being “good men” for years and years? and then later down the line we find out that they’ve been liars, serial cheaters or abusive all along? these are the men we are telling women to take accountability for? chileeeee ok