having an emotionally mature partner in a relationship is so important. you’re able to express your feelings openly and freely. they don’t insult you, they don’t dismiss you, they don’t become hostile. they listen, they respond, they patiently hold space for you. top-tier connection.
stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time and energy.