Knowing that I don’t have to second guess where I stand with someone. Being able to express how I feel without fear of being misunderstood, dismissed or made to feel like I’m asking for too much. Consistency, gentleness, honesty and reassurance. A love that allows me to exhale. 🥹❤️
I really hate inconsiderate ppl. Ppl who lack common courtesy, don't respect other mfs time, feelings, boundaries, or personal space, and move like they're the only ones who matter. Ppl who never think about how their actions affect others, who expect grace but don't know how to extend it, and who are so wrapped up in themselves that they forget other people have feelings too !!! It's really not that hard to be mindful of others. A little empathy, communication, and basic respect go a long fckn way. Being considerate shouldn't have to be taught to overgrown ass ppl.
I CAN'T STAND A NGGA who treats EVERYBODY ELSE with LOVE, PATIENCE & RESPECT but acts like HIS OWN WOMAN is a BURDEN !! Got all the UNDERSTANDING in the world for STRANGERS, but the WOMAN sleeping beside you can't even have a BAD DAY without you catching an ATTITUDE or starting an ARGUMENT !!Everybody else gets the BEST VERSION of you while YOUR WOMAN gets whatever ATTITUDE you got left ‼️🔈
One thing about me, I ain’t finna keep questioning a nigga about shit I already see with my own eyes. YOU THINK YOU BEING SLICK, WHOLE TIME I’M JUST DECIDING HOW MUCH LONGER I WANNA DEAL WITH YOU.
One thing I don’t tolerate is a man who doesn’t consider me while we’re dating. You know I’m sick? Get me soup and meds. I had a bad day/week(rarely)? Get me flowers. I’m grieving? Check on me. Etc. It does not take much. I’ll cut a mf off QUICK!!