thoughtsinmyhead

my random thoughts and wishful thinking on a 280 characters or less 🌸

[thoughtsinmyhead @_rdmthoughts]

Call me old-fashion, but I won't settle with someone just because of the pressure from the society. I don't chase, I patiently wait 😍

[thoughtsinmyhead @_rdmthoughts]

The reality of two people who only meant to cross paths but not to be together hits differently. But maybe, that pain and suffering redirects you to where you're meant to be. It might lead you to someone who might not be like your old love, but will give you peace and heal you.

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Another terrifying thought came to my mind again. I hope this isn't some kind of intuition but more of an mindless idea.

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I guess it was really over.

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Never ask for something you know you can't even commit. One day, Self. One day.

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And the one that helped me and reminded me that it was all a delusion? Chatgpt, ladies and gentlemen. 🤣

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"I don’t want to stay emotionally attached to someone who isn’t actively choosing me.”

Let this be my mantra for 2026 onwards 💙

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And here I go again, visiting the past and making that wishful thinking again. Stop lingering that feeling and move forward!

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Maybe you keep dwelling from the past and feeling like you wouldn't meet someone like him because he's the closest to making you feel seen, how he can read you like a book even without actually spending time together and can see the real you and that's the problem.

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The next second he is cold and back to his old self. It's been 7 years now and we still see each other in our workplace but we no longer speak with each other unless it's work related. Those notes were supposed to be my little throwback but ended up bringing back the pain. 💔

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Re-reading all those notes I created before and realized that he liked me back. We were both unsure and played the dangerous mind games and I should've known but my mind did the opposite and rejected all the moments because he is also testing the water. One minute he's into me-

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Before this year ends, I want to practice saying no to things I no longer want, a situation that forces me, and requests that will not do good to me. F*ck with people pleasing shit. Entering my inner adult era.

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

“all of us are selective sinners”

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Wishing for a positive outcome 🙏🙏🙏

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Treasuring those people who still act the same even though some things have changed. 💙

[Deep Psychology @DeepPsycho_HQ]

11 Greatest Theories I know at 40, I wish I knew at 20:

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[thoughtsinmyhead @_rdmthoughts]

I was told that when someone asked me about marriage, i'd say no for sure. Is that really how they perceived me as? Well, no reason to deny that but can they read me well? Or are they seeing something that I'm not aware of?