alltheliarsarecallingmeone

swiftie since 2006, 27, she/her, peace, ivy, ciwyw, dbatc, treacherous, tosotd, ttwas, btd. have never seen taylor live!

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@CaliGal4Ever @wake_up_girl_3 B) he had it pre planned with his new gf. If that’s the case, we are entering “let me get rid of my old family” territory.

Either way, it’s weird for him to take his new partner with him.

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@CaliGal4Ever @wake_up_girl_3 So, sorry lol, in this case we have 2 scenarios.

1) Patrick planned this trip with his family but his children died. he asks his GF “hey, want to take the plane seat meant for my murderer wife and stay in the hotel meant for my dead children?” And she was like “absolutely!! 🥰”

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@Sprewdriver @Birdsbirdbird @AnitaD4rling99 @ShayWoulahan My insurance covered it bc I work for the government but otherwise it is $300 and completely life changing

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@Sprewdriver @Birdsbirdbird @AnitaD4rling99 @ShayWoulahan I highly recommend you try genetic testing to determine the right medication for you

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@jogothy @ShayWoulahan hmmm yes. Dinner reservations that require you to show up with 10 minutes or the table goes to another group.

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@entheoalchemist @mcmill2008 @meowingabyss controlling behavior in the next reply, woah slow down! you’re going way faster than I’m used to, where’s the love bombing?

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@meltheatist @jiveturkey1024 @lexisoupertramp mhm. psychology, the field known for it’s absence of racism, sexism, classism.

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@EF_escape @entheoalchemist @mcmill2008 @meowingabyss lmao

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@entheoalchemist @mcmill2008 @meowingabyss And there is the abusive behavior! that took about 4 replies back and forth for you display. Distress tolerance and learning non violent communication would be really helpful for you

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@entheoalchemist @mcmill2008 @meowingabyss You need to learn to apologize without explaining.

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@entheoalchemist @mcmill2008 @meowingabyss People who do not take responsibility for their actions are more likely to have narcissistic traits, abusive behavior, and controlling tendencies.

I am separating this from an ADHD diagnosis. Time blindness exists. Avoiding harm caused in relationships is a separate problem.

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@entheoalchemist @mcmill2008 @meowingabyss Explaining why you are late is not accountability. If you are confused, you can start here:

https://t.co/0hMTRoUVBo

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@entheoalchemist @mcmill2008 @meowingabyss The difference between these two groups, who both struggle with executive dysfunction due to ADHD, is the inability to take accountability or responsibility for their actions.

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@Dragonfyre2 @thecandykeynes @SonOfFletch @Joevent_ @ShayWoulahan you are being defensive. I hit something vulnerable and you are choosing denial.

I have valued money more than my friendships at times throughout my life depending on my financial stability.

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@meltheatist @jiveturkey1024 @lexisoupertramp studies written primarily by white PHD students who spent, at most, a semester or two “integrated” in the culture they are researching. It’s impossible for research to accurately represent reality. This is a cornerstone of science.

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@lexisoupertramp @ratrhmu Your personal preference is irrelevant to whether you are spreading racist propaganda

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@Muricaenjoyer @peachpleaserr @lexisoupertramp YES! this is excellent discernment. white professors who spent one semester “integrating “ with a native community thinking they are suddenly PHD experts is colonialism in one of its finest form. Academia is drenched in racism from top to bottom

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@Muricaenjoyer @lexisoupertramp lmao at lex’s response excluding race from a cultural discussion. Race is and always will be involved, especially so around external identifiers of professionalism like timelessness!