it should not take you more than ONE YEAR to decide if you want to marry someone. if you haven't *discussed* marriage by 3 months, 6 months MAX, you should break up. no point in being together
@ceooftarik69 because he legit thought I didnt have the self respect to ACTUALLY leave this time, therefore he had no respect for me, and is still suprised that I'm not feeding into his narrative that I'm weak with no backbone