Discernment is not always about knowing when to leave. Sometimes God gives you discernment to know when to pray, when to keep quiet, when to ignore, and when to stay and grow. Wisdom is knowing what God is asking you to do in each season.
Nobody talks about the fact that Jesus wept at Lazarus's tomb.
He knew He was about to raise him from the dead.
He knew the miracle was seconds away.
And He still stopped and cried with the people who were grieving.
John 11:35
God doesn't skip your pain to get to your miracle.
He sits in it with you first.