@NeuSummits I don’t think people realize how overtly this was taught. The guys and girls were separated one day for chapel, and the girls were told to stop volunteering to pray in class and at extracurricular activities so the boys could learn to step up.
The best kid learning grows out of their curiosity, and we can create spaces and communities that foster the kinds of questions that lead to biblical literacy.
@MelodyFoster05@RebeccMcLaugh One way our church has handled this is to have a youth dinner before a guest speaker event. It makes space for their fellowship and friendship while also normalizing that they get to attend adult functions/spaces.
I hear (and experienced!) people essentially saying they don’t have the bandwidth to commit to teaching a children’s lesson… and I’m saying that it doesn’t take tons of time and the time I did spend had a great ROI before I ever got to class both in formation and fun.
I got to teach the elementary lesson for the first time as a volunteer today (resigned from the director position in May), and it was both so fun and very formational. People don’t talk enough about how prepping a Bible lesson is a spiritual discipline in itself.
And I know that after a decade of practice it’s easier for me to prep than most… but it really just involved reading the text a few times over the last week and thinking/praying about what to emphasize in it and how to engage the kids with it.
@tracesoffaith And its companions, Simply in Season and World Cookbook!
Granola, Swedish pancakes, Pakistani Kima… and the encouragement that on occasion, ice cream can be considered dinner.
@LauraRbnsn Presumably, but my 3yo is pretty convinced the shepherd takes the sheep swimming in those early verses, so perhaps we should be more imaginative about the sheep’s feasting capability? And perhaps my 3yo should apply to be a consultant for The Chosen.
My 2yo protesting naptime by yelling “This battle belongs to the Lord!”, and all I can think is “I couldn’t have said it better. May he give you sleep and me patience.”
One of the best parts about my last church position was there was no pressure to do stuff just to keep up with other churches. If something didn’t align with our values/goals, we didn’t do it.
Least amount of staff/volunteer burnout I’ve ever experienced. And I think our children’s numbers tripled* in 3 years?! So clearly we weren’t decimating the ministry, more like pruning it.