she's right af... ain't no pain like growing, healing and evolving and the person you want by your side not caring enough to do their part for the relationship
Y'all will soon realize that someone can say they want you and mean it with their feelings and still fail you with their habits, their behaviors, words and actions. Love without structure is where emotional safety dies.
Men don’t get tired of you. They get tired of being held accountable. The relationship “worked” because you swallowed your feelings, forgave too easily, and carried the emotional load alone. The moment you spoke up, asked questions, or set boundaries... you were suddenly “too much,” “dramatic,” “the problem.” They didn’t leave because you changed. They left because you stopped being their emotional doormat.