Holiday season with kids is the most exciting time of year but when you’re grieving balancing those feelings is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in life.
Just saw a TikTok of a lady who’s husband surprised her with balloons and a cake at the end of their child’s birthday to celebrate her 1 year breastfeeding journey 🥹 to be loved is to be seen ✨
bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something.
ppl lack of accountability then say, “u could’ve talked to me” no, i couldn’t. u don’t listen. u deflect. u twist everything into an attack and then play victim. conversations with u aren’t healing, they’re exhausting. and honestly, i don’t owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument, not to understand