I’m so embarrassed about the people I had in my life previously. A disgrace to me and who I am. Just based on the lack of love , the lack of loyalty and how people move. I’m so happy I outgrew everybody.
My lil sis just turned 21. We were having a convo & I said something along the lines of “they’re better than that” & she said, “no, ppl are what they show u. That’s your optimism.” I’m stunned because my optimism is a “positive” quality. But maybe it creates delusions too.
Be careful with how you talk to the people you care about. You may get over it right away but what you said will stay in their memory and all you’re doing is pushing them away.