Sahla Javed

expect disappointment so you never get disappointed.

[Sahla Javed @_sahlah]

men think women's greatest fear is ending up alone. No.
There's nothing scarier than ending up trapped, married to a man who drains your energy, steals your labor, dims your ambition, and calls it love.

[Sahla Javed @_sahlah]

i wanna be babied a little, loved a lot, and reminded that im not as difficult to love as i think

[Sahla Javed @_sahlah]

Stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Don't let anyone drain you of your happiness.

[A 🇦🇪 @tutututuulip]

A man who genuinely likes you will naturally want to see you, feed you, take you places, and make you happy. You shouldn’t have to beg for basic effort.

[sugamummy 🏋🏾‍♀️🎀🧚🏾‍♀️ @ceraliza]

Dating an older guy is so cute cause why does he text like he’s scheduling a meeting 😂😭😂😭

[Sahla Javed @_sahlah]

men will never understand how much a woman’s libido is tied to her mind. A deep conversation & feeling emotionally safe is the ultimate turn on

[Sahla Javed @_sahlah]

Men who can't communicate think everything is an argument, and men who lack accountability think everything is an attack.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Men who can't communicate think everything is an argument, and men who lack accountability think everything is an attack.

[Failure 🌷 @oliive_green]

Attachment can alter your neurons, physically. It's not a joke to say why she didn't let him go. It takes time to come out of such a toxic attachment and rewire the brain. It takes time, it takes social support and active therapy!

[Mia @Mia5062]

Let’s normalize making men uncomfortable when they say inappropriate things.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

today i heard a guy say he “just wants a low-maintenance girl.”

translation: he wants a woman with such small needs that he never has to stretch, grow, or step outside his comfort zone.

[patangeer @patangeer]

funny how in pakistan, a family with one daughter and two sons is considered 'complete', but a family with five daughters and no son is somehow 'incomplete' because apparently one son is still required to get the family's 'completion certificate'.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

i heard someone say, “you came into his life to show him a kind of love he had never experienced, and then he showed you exactly why he had never experienced it before.”

and honestly… that one is deep. some people can receive the love they always wanted and still not know how to handle it.

[Alla @sunrisefall]

@callmeMaharani Man’s role is to be a submissive provider 😌

[Goddess Maria @yourfreebird_m]

@callmeMaharani He wants a woman powerful enough to provide everything and submissive enough to pretend he did

[elsa @callmeMaharani]

this generation of men want submissive providers.

Like they’re searching for a woman who’ll pay the bills, raise the kids, cook the meals, stroke their ego, and somehow still make them feel like the “man of the house.”

[elsa @callmeMaharani]

feminism didn’t teach me to hate men. It taught me not to prioritize them above myself and apparently many men experience that as hate.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

You will know the character of a man by the woman he eventually picks to marry. If he is an insecure narc type of man, he will pick a beautiful, sweet, softspoken, domesticated, totally submissive woman with good pedigree but not so smart and accomplished as to outwit him. She should not outshine him. He would not even care about compatibility, wit, and interests because a narc cannot stand an excellent (holistic)woman. He is exposed.

[₊˚ 🦢・₊ @itsmepspsps]

we romanticized being detached because admitting "l really fucking love you and losing you would hurt me" requires a type of gangster this generation doesn't respect enough

[A. @Tachykardiaa]

Sexual compatibility can make or break a relationship, yet somehow it's the one thing people are too uncomfortable to discuss before marriage. How do arranged marriages survive when couples aren't even allowed to have an honest conversation about intimacy and compatibility? ...