Ngl in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created
Niggas want you to prove your worth to them in order for them to treat you right. Worst mindset to have with me cause I'm not auditioning for treatment I know I deserve. The minute you pursued me was the minute you knew my worth. Don't play with me.