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[Plushies For Hope | Volunteer Group @PlushiesForHope]

A donation drive to help Tatay Rolly with his livelihood
To everyone who understands and opens their heart to help Tatay Rolly, we are raising funds to grant his request:

1. To buy new sets of supplies he can sell
2. A few groceries such as rice, canned goods to survive for the week
3. Tentative: A commercial space he can use to sell his products (his child is still looking for an affordable place)

Any amount you can help and give is very much appreciated. Thank you and God bless.

[chai @_sh0la]

@jesstmep @miasnme honestly true. peoplee like to dig deeper onto it not really a big deal

[chai @_sh0la]

@pengekwarta dm sent!

[Essence ✦ @essencebydaniel]

That insight is spot on — and here's why:

Men aren’t less emotional.
They’re just taught to process emotions differently.

From a young age, boys are often told:
“Don’t cry.”
“Man up.”
“Get over it.”

So instead of feeling sadness, disappointment, fear —
they internalize it.
They convert it.
And often, it comes out as anger, withdrawal, or control.

But here’s the kicker:
Instead of recognizing those as feelings, many men treat them as truth.

"I'm angry — so you must’ve disrespected me."
"I'm anxious — so something must be wrong with this relationship."
"I feel disconnected — so I need space, not a conversation."

They don’t say “I’m feeling this way.”
They say “This is how it is.”

It’s not that men are cold or detached.
It’s that they were never given the tools — or permission — to sit with emotion, name it, and separate it from fact.

And that’s the real work.
Not becoming more emotional —
but learning how to own the emotion without becoming it.

[chai @_sh0la]

@chaisthoughts @denisejvlia mamili ka nalang mima

[chai @_sh0la]

@Bryceeeayoooo @denisejvlia tumpak!

[chai @_sh0la]

@denisejvlia my honest reaction to all this drama:

[chai @_sh0la]

@denisejvlia di talaga papipigil si ate ko o..

[chai @_sh0la]

@macronikki I suppose it's my friend realizing how it's actually partly neglect na ginawa niya yon sa bata. Kasi I noticed how her child struggles makaintindi ng tagalog tapos yung mga kamag anak pilit na pilit mag english hirap din para lang maintindihan nung bata.

[chai @_sh0la]

@macronikki Ng english later on.

[‏ؘ @LUXWESTWOOD]

long hair & skinny body for 2025

[chai @_sh0la]

@Chchuchelluna @k4thwaii same sis hahahahaha walang panggap malinis dito!!!

[i🫒 @applesdunorange]

i think this is why rich people stick to each other because they think people who complain about things they don’t have to worry about are too negative