forgiving in silence definitely sounds like the way to go to me & for me. i don't care to ease your guilt or make you feel like we're on good terms. some pain & trauma doesn't deserve it. you don't get to clear your conscious at my expense. i'll forgive in silence & move forward.
I hate a tit for tat relationship. If you feel slighted or hurt, talk to me. Don’t be petty and childish and try to do something to get back at me. Because how you claiming you down for me and then want to hurt me??? That’s a huge red flag