I pray my future partner is a good man and didnโt traumatised other woman in his past. It would be embarrassing to show him off proudly while thereโs a woman carrying a scar he created.
Unprofessionalism will kill us. Imagine the same clothes that the domestic staff used to commute to your house; she will use those clothes to carry the baby or touch your bed. No, please. In fact, we will not only make them wear one but make sure it is kept in my house so I can clean it.
at this big age when people show signs of hidden animosity or weird energy, just remove yourself. donโt try to understand them or try to make it make sense.
My advice to anyone starting out:
Develop a very strong opinion about yourself.
Know exactly who you are & who you are not.
If you don't, someone else will try to tell you who you are, and you might just start believing them.
I can't wait to actually meet someone who's actually interested in me. The constant crave of wanting to talk, asking about my day, my feelings, sharing laughter & being heard is so rare nowadays. Nobody communicates anymore. Real is Rare.