I can’t stand a ngga that’s tit for tat like your main purpose as a…. man is to lead and be logical, so why are you mirroring me and ts i do out of emotion? who tf gone be the man if we both acting like btches?
To be appreciated.
To be understood.
To be considered.
To be respected.
To be prioritized.
To be cared for.
To be desired.
To be chosen.
To be valued.
To be loved.
To be seen.
No disrespect to anyone, but God please don't send me another partner who doesn't know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don't want a partner who's still battling their own issues, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don't want a partner who can't stand firm, speak with clarity, or take control of their own life.
I'm grown enough to admit im not the easiest person to love. Life put me thru a lot, so yea...i overthink, i get triggered real quick, i shut down, and sometimes i don't even make sense. I'm sensitive as hell & i need patience.
But one thing about me?? MY LOVE IS REAL.
going through a phase rn, i think i've finally came in terms w letting a lot of stuff go. including, feelings, ppl, fears, just everything. it's time for new beginnings, new chapters that brings happiness, love &' endless memories. it's time to move on w life.
I don’t stay mad at people for long. I might distance myself and never really speak to you again, but I’m not sitting around holding anger like that.
Once I make my peace with something, I just move on quietly. No hard feelings, just distance.
It is deeply draining to be around people who lack emotional intelligence and self-control. Personal growth requires looking past yourself to see how your actions affect others. Making excuses or having good intentions is not enough; what truly matters is owning the impact you leave behind. If your actions cause harm, your positive intentions mean very little. True maturity is understanding that your words, actions, and choices all carry significant weight. Ignoring the damage you cause does not make it disappear. Growth is about accountability, not just aspiration. It's about recognizing the real consequences of your behavior and choosing to do better.
You’ll never hear me complaining about anything i go through anymore. my mind set been different. I turn all of my losses into my lessons and speak peace, prosperity over my life daily. everything i want, i will have. What’s for me will be for me. I’m going to be good regardless.
I’m so talked out, im not addressing anything anymore. The answers you want are always in people’s actions. I no longer want an explanation as to why people chose to be weird when it comes to me. Your actions were enough for me to realize you’re not who I THOUGHT you were. Thanks