nigerian men are so out of touch… she’s literally your guest right?? it’s because you see women as ppl that belongs in the kitchen and that’s why you stopped talking to her.. good for her truly, she escaped you
Unrelated but this is a reason I’ve stopped talking to someone i was into
Every time she came over, we either had to buy food, or I cook. Not once did she go into the kitchen.
You’ll stay over for 2-3 days. I’ll leave the house to get the ingredients. I’ll prepare everything, make the food and she’ll eat. I’ll do the dishes too after.
It was either that or I had to buy food that we’d eat. Not once did she offer to cook or make us a meal except that one time I’d eaten and she made noodles for herself.
Happened 3 times and after the third time, I just let her go