According to psychology people who grew up in families where no one apologized for disagreements, and would just let time pass instead of actually resolving things, often become conflict-avoidant, fearing confrontation or the expression of negative emotions, poor communicators, lacking the skills to effectively resolve issues or express their needs and feelings.
Kayo din ba? There are days that you will not have energy for anyone. Days that you feel like spending your time alone, pero it doesn’t mean people around you are no longer important or the things you love no longer excite you. So,take the time that you need to be yourself again.
I like how I am getting better at not taking everything personally. Just like what Barbara said: 'People have thrown dirt on my name. Others have given me flowers. But it's all a garden to me.'