La razón por la que tenemos reuniones que podrían haber sido un mail es porque la gente ya no sabe leer. No es que no lea, no sabe interpretar lo que lee, que es cien mil veces más alarmante.
"you handled that so well" no, i didn't. i went insane. i lost my spark. i suffered in silence. i didn't ask for help. i shattered alone and wore a smile that lied better than any mask could. i didn't handle it, i survived it because i had no other choice.
"Escucha a tu cuerpo"
Mi cuerpo: renuncia a tu trabajo, desaparece de la sociedad, haz amistad con las vacas del campo, abandona todo y vuélvete una con los árboles
Unfortunately, sometimes you have to be a little mean to make people realize you're not someone to be played with. Not everyone respects kindness, but they will respect boundaries.
As someone who works in legal, if I’m asking you to hop on a call it’s because we don’t want a paper trail or because you simply can’t read. Those are the options.
I hate to be the “let’s jump into a call” person because I don’t like it either but some people are genuinely so bad at reading and comprehension that I’d rather spend 5 mins verbally talking something out than emailing/messaging back and forth all day when I have shit to do.